
A good friend sent me the above and thought i would share with you all.

A good friend sent me the above and thought i would share with you all.
There are five steps or principles that we should be aware of and which affect and effect the way in which we see ourselves and how other see or perceive us:
Principle 1 ~ Mirror (1 Samuel 25: 1-42)
The first person we should examine is ourselves before we look at others.
Coping with difficult people is hard ~ how do you, cope with yourself.
We see people as they are ~ but as we are!
Through a lens we see others like we like to see others.
Destination & destiny ~ people keep moving, as they believe the next move (destination or destiny) will be the final move!
If you can’t fix problems where you are ~ you can’t fix someone else’s!
What do you do if you see someone you did not want to see?
Big issue ~ if you cannot get along with you, you will not get along with others.
Examine yourself.
How well do you know you?
How much to you like/love yourself. (James 2:8)
What do you see in the mirror ~ does it reflect Christ likeness, if not what steps are you going to take to improve you?
Continue reading “Five steps to measure ourselves by?”
From time to time most of us get caught up with gossip and rumours that impact our wellbeing and mental state.
Why do people get involved in gossip and rumours?
People get involved in gossip and rumours for many reasons such as to feel superior, for attention, out of envy and out of anger or unhappiness.
Why? Some people like to feel superior or want to be noticed generally don’t feel good about themselves and feel better when they put others down. In other words their self-esteem is low and by getting involved in worthless conversations they feel they have a place or position with others. However they also do it for attention because they will for a short time be the centre of attention. Furthermore they may do it out of anger or because they are unhappy, they might feel a sense of power out of seeing others suffer. That is why people get involved in gossip, rumours and slander.

How often do we as individuals strive to get the best? There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have the best, my question is, in doing so, do we strive, get anxious, get stressed and look to the container rather than what’s inside.
The bible tells us in;
1 Peter 5:7 (AMP) Casting the whole of your care [all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns, once and for all] on Him, for He cares for you affectionately and cares about you watchfully.’ In short who do we rely on ourselves or God, hey I’m sure you will all say God!
Continue reading “God’s Coffee”
A topic that is often mentioned is EMPOWERMENT and no doubt there are many people with differing views. However I would like to start a series of five blogs looking at this subject from a different angle and my hope is that you find this both thought provoking and interesting so ……
Empowerment refers to increasing the spiritual, political, social, or economic strength of individuals and communities. It often involves the empowered developing confidence in their own capacities.
This session I would like you to reflect on the word “Empowerment” what it means.
Continue reading “Empowerment ~ 1”Hi all, trust your looking forward to this year and decade. It has been remiss of me not to post anything for a while. However after being led by God I must continue to help, impact others in leadership and simply leading you.
OK so here we go
Develop the habit of living with excellence
The bible tells us many times about living with excellence, both moral and physical.
Continue reading “Fresh Start”The test of three!
From time to time most of us get caught up with gossip and rumours
Why do people get involved in gossip and rumours?
People get involved in gossip and rumours for many reasons perhaps such as to feel superior, for attention, out of envy and out of anger or unhappiness.
Why? Some people like to feel superior or want to be noticed generally don’t feel good about themselves and feel better when they put others down. In other words their self-esteem is low and by getting involved in worthless conversations they feel they have a place or position with others. However they also do it for attention because they will for a short time be the centre of attention. Furthermore they may do it out of anger or because they are unhappy, they might feel a sense of power out of seeing others suffer. That is why people get involved in gossip, rumours and slander.
Continue reading “The test of three!”