The test of three!

The test of three!

From time to time most of us get caught up with gossip and rumours

Why do people get involved in gossip and rumours?

People get involved in gossip and rumours for many reasons perhaps such as to feel superior, for attention, out of envy and out of anger or unhappiness. 

Why? Some people like to feel superior or want to be noticed generally don’t feel good about themselves and feel better when they put others down. In other words their self-esteem is low and by getting involved in worthless conversations they feel they have a place or position with others.  However they also do it for attention because they will for a short time be the centre of attention. Furthermore they may do it out of anger or because they are unhappy, they might feel a sense of power out of seeing others suffer. That is why people get involved in gossip, rumours and slander.

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Hey! where are you going?

Do you know where you’re going, are you sure?

Most people if asked will convince you they have a plan and they know where they are going. However when you ask some people, I’m sure they will say “well I have a rough idea, but not sure how to map it out”.

That’s the reality for many people as they walk through life without knowing where they are going, how will they get there and what will it look like when hey arrive. So I guess very few people have some sort of plan, seriously this was the case for me many years ago. So what happened, well firstly I worked with my wife in our consulting business and in that process I came across a simple 4 step process that effectively changed my thinking and also I came to know our Lord Jesus.

What would be our reaction if those we asked said simply “Yes” God directs my path! I am fairly sure many will would look perplexed, bewildered smile and say oh! Either ask ok great but what are you doing with your life or simply say “that’s fine” and walk away thinking wrong thoughts, how mad, how odd what a strange person.

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Habits ~ Make winning a habit

Lesson from the bible from, Proverbs 23v19: Listen, my son, and be wise, and set your heart on the right path:

A habit implies a doing unconsciously and often compulsively e.g. he had a habit of tapping his fingers.  Therefore a habit is a recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behaviour that is acquired through frequent repetition.

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Dandelion People

Dandelions, love en or hate em, they have a lot to teach us.

 A story from nature about how we could and should react to life.

 I love dandelions!

Call me crazy.
Call me lazy.
Call me a weed lover all you want –I Love dandelions.

I used to hate ’em, but now I love ’em.

Why in the world would I have an affinity for such annoying plants? Because they are a splendid illustration of how we ought to live!

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